of course this was inevitable i suppose.
a question from one of my distant acquaintances from overseas , - if i was gay.
poor thing , she apologized a dozen times before asking "do you like the same gender?".
it isnt very odd , that question, here i am a few years short of 30 and i dont even have a gf.
i WAS bothered very much about appearances ,about being 'friend'less for the entire duration of my earthly existence.
However, on answering my acquaintance, i realise i am not, anymore.
i like girls. i find some attractive because of a hobby or a behavioral trait and others i find attractive because of their female bits. i dont particularly like the second kind of attraction, because it is superficial.
what i DETEST with the whole of my being , is to sit back and discuss , my liking for said female bits with other members of my gender, who are, sorry to say, NOTORIOUSLY lacking in subtlety.
so if im lucky enough to get to talk to a few women/girls on a mature,platonic level, i really AM happiest that way.
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another blogger vanished : - deepthought00. - the webpage now hosts some porn page.
3 comments:
This is interesting! These actually are signs of being gay or a gentleman. Since you mentioned you aren't gay, that leaves you with the other option :)
lol...that's mean!but hey, I really appreciate that u don't think it is a man thing to be discussing about err the females bits:)
do you like the same gender?".
LOL! did your friend really put it in those words? hilarious it is. :)
sowwy. :p
i dont even have a gf
have always objected to this attitude. why is it the singlemost important thing in life? to have a gf/bf?
and when it does happen, why does it become the singlemost important thing?
don't get it. and i cannot stand the curiosity of "Well-meaning" friends that ask "toh..koi mila ki nai ??".
i didn't vanish. just that the thoughts lost depth. i have moved. do come!
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