Putting things out clearly

inspired by Arnold who left a comment on this post of mine .........

I have a thing against sensible and non-airheaded women having this thing about having their eyes open and walking into relationships which are so obviously not working.

i guess i should stress that it isnt the girls i'm trying to make out as bitches, its the sheer frustration that such total bastards would end up using these girls, and that these intelligent, self-aware girls would LET themselves be used.

yes, i realise that it makes me sound angry, and i dont intend this post to somehow justify that emotion.

I used to believe that one is supposed not to let one's friends walk into the path of a onrushing train.

but i've realised (since the last post , hence the lack of posts therein) that part of being friends is letting them be run over .... its all about Freedom of Choice ....

confusion

what is with girls liking mean guys? i mean they KNOW they are going to be used and hung out to dry and the girls still prefer them over the nicer people.

two of the girls i know like mean guys.

must be some repressed sado-maschoistic impulse that makes them.