Kind of Women to Stay Away From

(hopefully this is the Non- MCP version)

or maybe you can consider it the Nice But Losing It Guy version
unlike This mostly Biased version

1. Women on the Rebound , i'm talking about the kinds who would NOT get attracted to you if you were the last Man on earth - if the Rebounder is a long time friend, it doesnt hurt if she doesnt mind.

2. Women with a really severe Money Spending Problem (unless she's earning it and burning it on things that do NOT involve both of you, or some genuine crisis issue)


3. Animated Mannequins With No Brains (this is true if you have a fair amount of brains) /Career Women (this is true if you are a Male Airhead)


4. Women who disrespect their own parents , if you are a Man who respects his own parents.


All above said and done, the responsibility in ANY relationship goes both ways. Men and Women, both have to work at it , no use being MCP or Feminist about it being the fault of the Other Side.

if its a problem , its BOTH of you who need to look for a solution.

Work Questionnaire

how many months have you been in your current job ?

how many months have you been feeling disgruntled or obsolete?

what are the reasons you would leave if any ?

when opportunity strikes

i detest men who think women are objects to be described in demeaning terms.
once i used to try and change them. nowadays i just only barely tolerate the company of such men.maybe they think that carrying a penis somehow makes me like them.

when i told her, she said "you are one of the good guys". well , inspite of me being one of the good guys the slimy guys described above are the ones having girlfriends or getting married.
--X--
she broke up with her guy.
i like her , but i will need some time to get to know if i can move ahead with telling her i adore her.

at the same time, i dont want to hurt her again if i am wrong.
but if i wait too long some OTHER guy is going to inveigle his way into her affection!
i want her to be happy, but since 2008 began , i want ME to be happy too!

being a good guy is sometimes so problematic!

on the one hand i dont want to be opportunistic, but i really do want to try and work it out with giving US a chance.

--X--

Weedingania

for the past three months or so, i have been visiting weedings like tomorrow.

of course you know what the word is but i call it weeding. the process of elimination of generally useful characters from the single world. rather contrary to the plant-related meaning of the word.

i realise this blog has descended into whole hearted cynicism, and frequent sarcastic digs at the world around me , but if that is the way it is, that is the way it is.

i fail to understand how some people can keep working at keeping together with someone who's evidently so wrong for them. i realise that Quarrels and Misunderstandings and Breakups and Reconciliations are part and parcel of relationships ... however this proclivity of some girls i generally adore to hang out with someone with whom they spend a vast majority disagreeing with, is totally beyond my (decidedly sub-par) male comprehension.

i may also be feeling miffed that they would choose that quarrelling, decidely non-poetic, unappreciative person over me. i guess the strife is the part of "the delicious frisson of excitement" that said girls find so fascinating.

some days i wish i was less of a 'caring understanding loving guy' if it meant i wasnt the guy being passed over.

i really hate it when some girl tells me 'have patience' . i want to scream , 'dont you get it ? i dont want to wait for some mythical possibly non-existent girl to show up, when all i want to do is be with YOU".

of late , trying to generate enough content to put on here , is not worth the effort.

after all, if no one reads it , is it really worth writing?