It does not get any easier.
After a lifetime of theorizing , i guess that arguments are inevitable.
the sooner a guy accepts that he WILL goof up , and that it always ISNT his fault. and that he shouldnt blame the girl, rather , try to work around the circumstance that caused the girl to be all weepy and hurt.
some of the inevitable facts of together-life. (atleast for the girl i'm with for the next 90 odd years)
- she will NEVER forget.
- guy should NEVER forget the anniversaries - where we first met, what we first ate, what she wore first, birthdays etc.
- dont yell at her, EVER.
- when you feel like yelling, just shut up and pinch your lips shut.
- dont tell ANYONE (blog included) about all the personal things in life - that includes *almost* everything (99.99999999999999999999% of things are personal)
- Be a responsible guy, she wont take a lazy bum.
- if she has to keep reminding you for everything, you arent responsible.
- dont sit back and let her do ALL the housework.
- call up her parents ever-so-often, they're your parents too, now.
its a work in progress, this list. I'm learning all the above, and its wrong to believe that "women force men into their line of thinking" ...
I would call it "being aligned together, mentally".
