Weedingania

for the past three months or so, i have been visiting weedings like tomorrow.

of course you know what the word is but i call it weeding. the process of elimination of generally useful characters from the single world. rather contrary to the plant-related meaning of the word.

i realise this blog has descended into whole hearted cynicism, and frequent sarcastic digs at the world around me , but if that is the way it is, that is the way it is.

i fail to understand how some people can keep working at keeping together with someone who's evidently so wrong for them. i realise that Quarrels and Misunderstandings and Breakups and Reconciliations are part and parcel of relationships ... however this proclivity of some girls i generally adore to hang out with someone with whom they spend a vast majority disagreeing with, is totally beyond my (decidedly sub-par) male comprehension.

i may also be feeling miffed that they would choose that quarrelling, decidely non-poetic, unappreciative person over me. i guess the strife is the part of "the delicious frisson of excitement" that said girls find so fascinating.

some days i wish i was less of a 'caring understanding loving guy' if it meant i wasnt the guy being passed over.

i really hate it when some girl tells me 'have patience' . i want to scream , 'dont you get it ? i dont want to wait for some mythical possibly non-existent girl to show up, when all i want to do is be with YOU".